Well, I am incredibly embarrassed to admit this, but I just feel awful that I neglected so many great and important relationships in my life for so long. But better late than never, I guess. Like Megan said recently at Andrea’s bridal shower–after seeing so many bridges we’ve burned, its really awesome when you discover that some of them are still intact, albeit some might be in a state of disrepair. Getting consumed with a failed relationship is unhealthy, but sometimes unavoidable. And while realizing that you have to let something go often seems like the emotional equivalent of a wrecking ball, the chance to cultivate something new is totally worth it.